A Dad Talks About Five Attributes in Coping with the COVID 19 Pandemic
by John Timmins I look back on the past few months of the lockdown or restricted movement. The situation was challenging; however, it ended up being a positive time in terms of the growth of our relationship as a family. I am a Catholic school teacher, and my wife is a physical therapist in a […]
Dads are a Gift from God
by Rick Gonzalez One of the things I am most proud of in my life is fulfilling the role of a father. This is not an easy task in this day and age where everything seems to be upside down. I have been self-employed as an architect since I was 27 years old. My father […]
The Church Does Not Reject Cremation; But Recommends Traditional Burial, if Possible
If you have ever been to Italy, you might have visited the catacombs of Rome located outside the Walls of the city. The catacombs are subterranean passageways that were used by Christians as places of burial for many centuries. The Roman law at that time prohibited the burial of the deceased in the city. It’s […]
Emergency Responders May Be Obliged to Perform CPR if a DNR Form is Unavailable
There was a story about a couple who just moved to retire in Florida. The husband, named Ken (not his real name) was diagnosed with a serious heart condition, along with some kidney and metabolic problems. The only way to fix his heart ailment was through an open-heart surgery. Ken seriously thought about the procedure […]
Caregivers, You Must Also Take Care of Yourselves as You Take Care of Your Loved Ones
There is a reason behind every flight’s safety instruction that in case of an emergency, passengers should put on their oxygen masks first before attending to others. This instruction is not being selfish. It is practical, wise, and kind. If you attend to yourself first, you have a chance of saving those who are traveling […]
Should Tube Feeding be Administered to those with Advanced Stage of Alzheimer’s Disease and Other Progressive Illnesses?
There was a young woman who asked whether to place her mother who had an advanced stage of Alzheimer’s disease (dementia) on a tube feeding. She had stopped eating. She had an advance directive indicating that she did not want to recourse on tube feeding to sustain her life. The daughter asked, should we recourse […]
What is the Church’s Teaching About End-of-Life Care?
The Ethical and Religious Directives for Catholic Healthcare Services reiterates that a person has moral obligations to use means of preserving life that offer a reasonable hope of benefit and do not entail an excessive burden. A person may forgo treatments and procedures that do not offer reasonable hope of benefit, or that entail excessive […]
General Guidelines in Preparing an Advance Directive
Advance directives should meet legal requirements. Advance directives should meet legal requirements, like the signature of witnesses and the patient’s competence. The document must also be kept in a secure location, which is accessible when needed. Members of families and health care surrogates must also be informed of the particulars of the directive so that […]
What is a Healthcare Surrogate and How to Choose One?
A surrogate is a person who is personally or legally designated to make healthcare decisions on behalf of another person who is no longer capable of making healthcare decisions for himself/herself. It is important to appoint a surrogate as there are hosts of medical conditions, treatments or procedures that may arise when a patient becomes […]
What is an Advance Directive?
As the term implies, an advance directive is a set of instructions or guidelines made in advanced by a competent person specifying his/her medical care when he or she becomes physically and mentally incapacitated. It is not legally required to complete an advance directive. However, if a person has not expressed his/her wishes at end-of-life, […]
What Happens When You Do Not Have an Advance Directive?
When you do not have an advance directive, someone else will decide on your behalf when you are incapable of making healthcare decisions for yourself. There is no assurance that the decisions made are aligned with your wishes or preferences. If family members are involved, they might have different opinions in handling your care. A […]
The Church Conforms with Brain-death criterion for Organ Donation
by Fr. Dennis Gonzales There is a common belief that the heart is the source of vital functions that sustain life. For many centuries, death is declared when the heart stops to beat. The absence of heart function eventually leads to the cessation of the respiratory, central nervous, and other bodily systems.[1] In 1968, a […]
Remarriage After Death of a Spouse Does Not Mean that Love is Forgotten
The death of a spouse, especially in an untimely manner is a devastating situation. It leaves a void in the life of the living partner. It inevitably entails a lot of struggles, adjustments and periods of grief. It takes time to go through those moments of loneliness and sorrow to keep everything together to start […]
Advance Directives Prevent Families from Being Torn Apart
Death is a universal phenomenon. It does not only happen to people over ninety years old. Death happens in natural or unnatural means to anybody. Advance care planning is not only for seriously ill or older people but for all competent and capacitated adults. The cases of Karen Quinlan, Nancy Cruzan and Terri Schiavo that […]
What is the Church’s Position on Stem Cell Research?
For a number of years, there has been a bit of euphoria about stem cell research because it brings a promise of treating various diseases, such as diabetes, Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s, cancer, and others. Stem cells may also be used to replace worn-out, or damaged cells, including blood cells. The shortage of organs for transplantation has […]
Understanding Grief Helps in Coping with Loss
Besides my own experiences with loss, I also encountered many people who went through the pain of loss in my work and ministry in healthcare. I saw the process of grief described in textbooks in actual situations. Loss is a part of life because life is changing. Life on earth has a beginning and an […]
Overcoming the “Wrong Guilt” of Placing Mom or Dad Into a Nursing Home
Our parents play a significant role in our lives. One way of showing our love and gratitude to our parents is to take care of them in our homes when they get older and are unable to take care of their own needs. Many cultures find the opportunity to care for elderly parents as a […]
The Use of Pain Medicines in Comfort Care is Morally Acceptable Under Certain Guidelines
_____________________________________________________________________ Many end-of-life issues involve the relief of pain and discomfort brought about by terminal illnesses. We have been blessed that among the contemporary medical breakthroughs are treatments and interventions used to relieve pain and promote comfort effectively. These measures help persons go through the effects of illness in a dignified way. They also provide an atmosphere […]
When Is It Morally Acceptable to Forego Tube Feeding?
A parishioner related to me a situation concerning her mother who had an advanced stage of Alzheimer’s disease (dementia) and had stopped eating. She had an advance directive indicating that she did not want to recourse on tube feeding to sustain her life. However, her daughter (the parishioner) was confused and morally distraught because she […]
What is Physician-Assisted Suicide (PAS)?
By Fr. Dennis Gonzales There was a story of a young married woman from California who was diagnosed with a serious type of brain tumor sometime in 2014. She had undergone a series of treatments, but the tumor remained aggressive. Her health continued to deteriorate. She experienced an increasing intensity of pain and bouts of […]
Healing Means Finding “Inner Peace” Amid Sufferings
by Fr. Dennis Gonzales At the end of the second year of our studies and formation at the seminary, we are sent to different hospitals for our clinical pastoral education (CPE). CPE is part of the seminary curriculum that offers training to future ministers to provide pastoral and spiritual care to individuals and families who […]
A Sample of an Advance Directive
DECLARATION of LIVING WILL I, (Name), (age), and currently residing at (address), make known my healthcare directives in an event that I become unconscious or incapacitated and unable to decide for myself. I attest that I am of sound mind in initiating this directive. I attest that Catholic faith is an important part of my […]
Advance Care Planning is About Living a Peaceful and Meaningful Life
Our life is a compelling story. It is amassed with meaningful events as a result of our day-to-day encounter with the world. It is sustained and nourished by relationships and faith, which bring a more profound meaning to our every encounter. Like a movie narrative, life is composed of exciting events that elicit various emotions, […]
